Sorry, I'll be more clear: what I think is that it's extremely unlikely that a school administrator seriously suggested that this woman get her daughter breast reduction surgery. As I said, stranger things have happened, but when someone claims that something as bizarre as this happened and I haven't heard the other side of the story yet, I'm not inclined to just take their word for it. When that person also says something else that's kind of nutty, I'm even less inclined to do so. I don't think she made it up out of whole cloth though, which is why I posited a scenario that I consider more likely: that the school administrator might have made a sarcastic comment about a breast reduction to shut her up. Still very unprofessional and not at all helpful, but not as completely insane as the story the mother is telling. And if that's what was really said, it's easy to see how that could be misunderstood on the receiving end by someone who was already upset.