I just got invaded for the first time. I was human because I'd just kindled a bonfire to a higher level and was on my way to kindle another one when suddenly I was blocked from leaving the area without understanding why. Then someone came and took all my soft humanity and killed me. :( Anyway... is there a "proper" form for saying "no thanks" to an invasion? If I allow one of the normal monsters to kill me before the invader gets to me, will that stop the invasion? Or is it considered obligatory to actually take on the invader? Also, I indicted him after I died. Does that do anything meaningful?